Helping Kids Through a Move: Making the Transition Easier

Moving can be a big deal for kids, so it’s important to help them feel included and supported every step of the way. Once you’ve decided to move, sit down with your kids and talk openly about what’s happening. Share why you’re moving and where you’re headed, giving them as much time as possible to process. For older kids, consider involving them in the home search before final decisions are made—it helps them feel part of the process. Be honest when answering their questions but try to focus on the exciting parts of the move. A little reassurance can go a long way in helping them navigate the change.

Involve Them in the Planning

Before packing begins, take time with your kids to sort through their belongings. Ask them what they’d like to keep, donate, or part with—especially if they’ve recently outgrown clothes or toys. It’s a simple way to involve them while also cutting down on the clutter you’ll need to move.

Set a packing timeline to make the process more manageable and work room by room to stay organized. To make things more fun, let your kids decorate their moving boxes with stickers or drawings—it’s a creative way to get them involved while keeping things labeled. On moving day, introduce them to the movers so they feel like they’re part of the big event.

Make the Move Feel Fun

Create a moving essentials kit with your kids, including comfort items like their favorite stuffed animals, books, toys, and snacks. This kit will help them feel more at ease during the transition. Once you’re in the new house, keep the energy light—play upbeat music while unpacking or take a break to explore a local ice cream shop (I recommend Handle's). Letting kids make choices about decorating their new space can give them a sense of control and excitement about the change.

Stick to Routines and Traditions

Consistency is comforting, so try to keep your family routines intact after the move. Whether it’s Sunday morning waffles or Taco Tuesdays, these little traditions help kids feel grounded in their new home. If you don’t have routines yet, this is the perfect time to start one—think family movie nights or game nights to create new memories together.

Stay Connected with Friends

Moving doesn’t have to mean losing touch with old friends. Help your kids set up virtual calls or write letters to stay connected, or set up regular playdates if you're close, especially if they’re too young to manage this themselves. If moving far, a going-away party with a memory book or scrapbook for friends to write messages can also help them cherish their friendships while getting closure.

Explore Your New Community Together

Show your kids what’s great about your new neighborhood! Visit nearby parks, playgrounds, or kid-friendly spots like aquariums, zoo's or Thanksgiving Point. Look for community events or programs where they can meet new friends, and use it as an opportunity to connect as a family. Exploring together not only makes the new place feel more like home but also creates new adventures to look forward to.

Moving is a big transition, but with a little planning and a lot of support, it can be an exciting new chapter for the whole family.